#actuallyautistic #ActualllyAutistic #autismacceptance
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A thread.
Jeff’s Antisocialization theory and Neurodiversity theory.
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Always I am trying to lay it out in short form, spoiler alert: it never works.
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1. Spanking is an attack and can be a trauma and what a spanked human baby, born to learn, learns is that the human they archetypically expect to love them attacks them, the first human they interacted with attacked them.
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2. If we could run, it would be like any hostile animal, like a predator, simple, and possible to learn, but we cannot, so there is conflict, pain, fear, and hatred, we have reasons not to acknowledge or express these, we are still in the predator’s larder.
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3. This conflict produces ambivalence, we learned early to hate and fear, but we must find love also, somehow, and so we are split within ourselves - and this splitting is what we produce in the world, this splitting is what makes us a “social animal,” whereby we must have people to love, which seems healthy enough, but we must also find people to hate, to reconcile our earliest childhood survival learning.
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I think that’s new, a thing I intuited but never said before: this early abuse creates the NT social life. 

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tired. TBC, hopefully.