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I joined a running group at the track today and I may as well have been part of a walking group next to them.

I still got 4 miles in but I find the running clubs near me don’t have any casual runners. Just about everyone is intense and going minimum of 6-8 miles on easy days and training for 30-50 milers.

I miss my old running club that had a slower pace and I was actually one of the faster people. Well, at least I’m getting out there and trying to meet people.

Why is it so hard to make friends when you’re older?


@LoganFive

I joined a Vets (older people) club that has quite a wide mix of people, including 3miles at a reasonable pace. Having said that I did 3 miles last night and nearly died. But well done for getting out there. It's a massive step and extremely positive.

Logan 5 and 999 others

@TheBreadmonkey Thanks Ben! I have been going to a regular Tuesday run and running with the 80 year olds who seem to be at my pace. And they’re friendly too. There was also a different Thursday run I was trying out where I would start with everyone and then eventually watch everyone run off at a faster pace.

When I was in LA there were tons of casual groups and the pace never seemed extreme. Maybe I’m not looking in the right places.