beige.party is one of the many independent Mastodon servers you can use to participate in the fediverse.
A home to friendly weirdos. The Grey Gardens of the Fediverse (but beige). Occasionally graphically cacographic. Definitely probably not a cult (though you'll never be 100% sure). Beige-bless 🙏

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active users

I am making no judgements negative or positive. I just thought this was interesting....

Number of active monthly users / MAU...

Fedi - 1 million
Bluesky - 3.5 million
Twitter - 260 million (according to Musk)
Threads - 275 million (according to Zuck)
Telegram - 950 million
Facebook - 3 billion

We are clearly the weirdos

RolloTreadway

@TheBreadmonkey I know this is a bit niche and parochial, but from personal experience, I have felt like it's a good comparison: using fedi instead of the big corporate social media is like supporting your local non-league football club.

You're not one of millions of people all talking about the same kind of thing. You don't have a vast audience with which to say celebratory things when it all goes well or sympathetic things when it doesn't.

People don't care about your club. Many don't know it exists. It's not visible, it's not prominent, it's not conveniently accessible through every possible medium. Things go wrong, quite often, and you have to expect that as part of your lot in life. Nothing is ever entirely easy.

But what you get in return from supporting your local non-league club is a community that genuinely cares about you and wants to be your friend. You get a club that sees you as a human being, who are glad you're there, who value your opinion, who want you to be happy. If you're not happy, you won't be alone, and if you protest then you're not easy to ignore. The people running the club are probably just ordinary locals who care and don't mind wasting their time and money.

You don't get exploited as purely a commercial resource. You're not lost and irrelevant among millions of identical customers. You don't have to worry about funding a murderous dictatorship or a monstrous capitalist. When people complain about everything that's wrong with modern football, they don't mean you.

And sometimes, you get a degree of joy that people who attach themselves to Liverpool or Man City etc will never experience: the joy of seeing the little guy achieve way beyond expectations, and actually being part of that.

@RolloTreadway@beige.party @TheBreadmonkey@beige.party This is one reason why I prefer going to the smaller local parkrun which usually attracts about 70 people rather than the huge one a similar distance away which attracts on average over ten times that.

My parkrun volunteering has been only at events which attract a smaller number of runners, too.

@RolloTreadway @TheBreadmonkey rollo, this is beautiful and i love it. thanks for putting it into words.

@RolloTreadway @TheBreadmonkey

I actually like fedi that way

Bluesky is so depersonalized its like a bunch of strangers ... On fedi its more cosy and familiar

Could be just me...

@RolloTreadway
I love this, and I don't even like football (probably because of big teams actually).
@TheBreadmonkey

@RolloTreadway @TheBreadmonkey Wonderful analogy!

Two years ago I began attending local cricket matches. I am in the US and only learned about the club while researching something else in a history book.

Usually I'm the only fan in attendance, but I've sat next to the club president, who taught me about cricket and the history of the club (the newer history that's not in the books).

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@RolloTreadway @TheBreadmonkey Here I've chatted directly with instance admins--my own and others. Well known people I followed on Twitter have, here, followed me back and responded to my posts.

It's not about stroking my ego (although I admit it felt good), but about feeling part of things, not just another statistic to show to shareholders and advertisers.

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