beige.party is one of the many independent Mastodon servers you can use to participate in the fediverse.
A home to friendly weirdos. The Grey Gardens of the Fediverse (but beige). Occasionally graphically cacographic. Definitely probably not a cult (though you'll never be 100% sure). Beige-bless 🙏

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Gray Rockin' Evelyn

@Gorfram not a lawyer, but here's an idea: would you be able to specify that your sibling hire someone to find the person you are looking for? That way your sibling isn't burdened, a pro is doing the searching, and the pro could be paid directly by you.