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I must have touched a nerve. Funny to find #narcissists out in the wild - especially for someone who claims to be "Pro Science" and then fears rebuttal so much that they instantly block you.

Two points:
1. The world of psychiatry has concluded that #NPD (or "Narcissistic Personality Disorder") has been on the rise since the 60s
2. The #WHO has announced that the world is going through a #MentalHealthPandemic

Make of that what you will. I stand by my statement.

toot.community/@proscience/114

toot.communityProScience (@proscience@toot.community)@hopland@snabelen.no "What psychiatry will not tell you" Strange claim without any evidence. Please refrain from claiming your very own experience to be universally applicable. Thank you and good luck.
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@adavid @MugsysRapSheet Trump, like all #ShortDarkTriad #Narcissists harbors #Grudges and seeks #Revenge. He surrounds himself with #Sycophants and #Opportunists who will enable him. Moreover, he will #BurnEverythingDown to be seen and to #ConsolidatePower The only good thing that Trump has done is to expose similar people in #Politics #Government and #Religion. My hope is that out of the damage and ashes he destroys the #Sickness that the #GOP has become.

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Ey. Take your demoralizing elsewhere. May I recommend #Twitter? No, I'm not calling it X.

"The #left" as a #pejorative must stop, because the talking points are basically so vein and ignorant of the problems that is clearly a result of psy-ops. #ThinkTanks got in your brain, boy.

As for me, I reject the #degeneracy and delusions of grandeur that the average #oligarch has. They're #narcissists and #hedonists. I'm about freeing people from their clutches, not fashion a iron glove.

@polarity

You don't Say!
Bad day for Ron DeathSantis?

Or just a waste of the good ol Legislators' time because soon things will all be in order, top down?

=> In rare move, Florida Republicans defy DeSantis on immigration

washingtonpost.com/nation/2025

> The GOP-led state legislature shut down a special session ordered by the governor and overrode one of his vetoes.

#GQP #DeathSantis #immigration #Florida #TrumpVirus #sycophants #narcissists & #malevolent & #psychopathology

The Washington Post · In rare move, Florida Republicans defy DeSantis on immigrationBy Lori Rozsa
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A link @Vancouverismism shared is certainly eye opening.


#Narcissists often derive a sense of satisfaction by provoking emotional reactions in others, especially anger. This behavior stems from their deep-seated insecurities and need to dominate their environment. Here's why they do it:

threadreaderapp.com/thread/186

Important bits for me were

#Narcissists are selective in who they target to provoke. They tend to focus on individuals who embody qualities they envy, fear, or want to suppress.
These are the types of people the narcissist typically provokes or attacks

I went down the list, item by item, "Sure maybe a bit of 1 (Empathetic and Kind People), maybe some of 2 (Confident and Self-Assured Individuals)," and so on , until I hit #6:


6. People Who Challenge or See Through Them

•Why: Narcissists can’t tolerate being called out, confronted, or ignored. They especially target people who see through their manipulations or challenge their authority, as these individuals pose a direct threat to their fragile ego.

•What they fear: Losing control or being exposed as less competent, powerful, or important than they want to appear.

Ooooooo 🔔 DING DING DING! 🔔

From minute one when I pointed out that she has never done anything for anyone but herself and she tried to pawn off her bizdev/PD credit nights as being for community 🙄

Even this, buried as it is in a thread that pretty much only Rita, Caryma, and Van are gonna see (the latter because I tagged him) is going to chafe and make her want to lash out, thus validating the observation.

I'm not even sure what she is accomplishing at this point. The dopamine hits from LYING are clearly insufficient to counter the knowledge that I have hit the target.

Literally, the only thing left to her narcissistic ass is to stop reading the little jabs that keep ripping open the primary narcissistic wound.

I mean, we all know how much she would like me to go to jail for hurting her feelings, but even she on some level has to see how fucked up that is. Or at least she would with some massive psychological work, but that would entail acknowledging there's an issue, which would mean acknowledging that I'm right, but that would mean acknowledging she's not in great psychological condition, which... would she even be a malignant narcissist if she could acknowledge that?

And I leave you with a comment from bluesky that seemingly explains her need to do DARVO on my post about her perpetual DARVO.

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"The enemy of my enemy" stratagem strikes again!

🍿🍿🍿

#TheEnemyOfMyEnemy #Narcissists

Edit: Context for anyone who missed the shit show that took place last month, Caryma Sa'd STALKED Rachel Gilmore's BOYFRIEND'S socials to find out he was performing IN MONTREAL and drove HOURS out of her way (it's not en route to Ottawa let's not be disingenuous) to set her disgusting misogynistic, overbearing creep spouse on her, while she pretended to "just ask questions" at a distance.

Basically, the same performance she's given numerous times in the past three years.

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(11/N) A fourth category of adversaries:

🫳 Intruders

#Intruders want to ignore your #boundaries at will, and their related actions to be unrestricted and without repercussions, for as long as possible. Additionally, satisfaction might be derived from any ineffective responses to their actions.

Controlling your assets at will, and having unrestricted access to them is their goal. Some are fantasizing about a relationship with you that would somehow entitle them to it. Sometimes, their actions include damaging, or destruction of, your assets, to inflict suffering upon you, or for revenge, or to gain notoriety.

This is a wide category that includes attention-getters; #narcissists and #stalkers; abusive, vengeful and jealous people; starstruck individuals seeking #parasocial interaction; thrill seekers; script kiddies; "OSINT" wannabees; swatters; vandals; and sometimes even potential employers.

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Start of this thread:
mastodon.de/@tuxwise/113503228

MastodonDEtuxwise (@tuxwise@mastodon.de)(1/N) With more challenging times ahead, the #4D​s will become more important, too: ✋ **Defend** your boundaries: know what matters to you, and properly safeguard it – instead of being an alert-driven option tinkerer. 🪪 **Define** yourself: use multiple identities that focus on a single purpose each – instead of having everything you do, have and think linked back directly to you. 👑 **Decide** like a sovereign: get to know your needs, and what meets them best – instead of sacrificing them to the interests of others. 🌐 **Dwell** the space: seek community, practice solidarity and citizenship – instead of being beaten a little later than others, in a glorious bunker. In the future, I'll post a few ideas and suggestions based on the 4Ds. BTW, I have dropped the adjective "#digital" from my vocabulary. There is no more separate "digital sphere" or "cyberspace" that wasn't part of our everyday lives. #privacy #security #anonymity

Something I've noticed about some narcissists & sociopaths: they don't understand why people who have empathy care about others. For instance, they don't understand why lesbians fight for abortion rights... or why people living outside abortion-ban states fight for abortion rights... or why people in one country fight for abortion rights around the world.