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Knowledge Zone<p>The <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Planetary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Planetary</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> framework indicates that humanity has transgressed multiple critical Earth system processes, placing us outside of a safe operating space. </p><p>Recent studies show that a majority of the nine planetary boundaries, including those related to climate change and biodiversity loss, are now exceeded, increasing the risk of irreversible environmental changes.</p><p><a href="https://knowledgezone.co.in/posts/Broken-Planet--Status-of-Planetary-Boundaries-650404a78eed0608c97c8c56" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">knowledgezone.co.in/posts/Brok</span><span class="invisible">en-Planet--Status-of-Planetary-Boundaries-650404a78eed0608c97c8c56</span></a></p>
Deutschland<p><a href="https://www.europesays.com/de/15360/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">europesays.com/de/15360/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> Boundaries am 05. April 2025 im MusikZentrum in Hannover <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/DE" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DE</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Deutschland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Deutschland</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Galerie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Galerie</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Germany" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Germany</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Hannover" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Hannover</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Niedersachsen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Niedersachsen</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Varials" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Varials</span></a></p>
Edward Champion<p>I had to cut off an acquaintance this morning. He kept asking me for money. I gave him $200 over the last two years. I asked him politely to stop, but money was literally the ONLY time he'd text me. And what did he do this morning? He asked me for money again, taking advantage of my generosity. </p><p>I feel like utter shit. But this was necessary. I am trying to learn to stick up for my boundaries. This is a 180 from my usual tactics. All this is new and scary. But I'm doing it.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a></p>
daieno bika<p>How to make friends with ponies in 3 easy steps: </p><ol><li><p>Put out the hay in multiple piles so the ponies have choices. </p></li><li><p>Sit next to a hay pile like you’re having a picnic. </p></li><li><p>When the ponies come up to share your picnic spot, resist the monkey-instinct to pat them. Sharing a hay pile may not seem like you’re doing much, but you came here for 3 <em>easy</em> steps, didn’t you? </p></li></ol><p>Actually, the ponies find it pretty meaningful to peacefully share a good snack spot. That doesn’t stop Abner from rudely sticking his face in Abigail’s face just to see if she still likes him enough to tolerate his more annoying behaviors sometimes. Just like sometimes, I don’t manage to resist the urge to pat. And I see in their expressions that they would often prefer if I sat there quietly and kept my hands to myself. </p><p><a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/horses" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#horses</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/ponies" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#ponies</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/boundaries" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boundaries</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/friendship" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#friendship</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/positivereinforcement" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#PositiveReinforcement</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/howto" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#HowTo</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/horsehacks" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#HorseHacks</a> <a class="hashtag" href="https://akkoma.steadhaven.xyz/tag/lessismore" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#LessIsMore</a></p>
PatternChaser<p>These might look <a href="https://mas.to/tags/lazy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lazy</span></a>, but are actually reasonable strategies:</p><p>- resist pointless <a href="https://mas.to/tags/tasks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tasks</span></a> to create time for deep thinking,<br>- set <a href="https://mas.to/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> at work to avoid <a href="https://mas.to/tags/burnout" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>burnout</span></a>,<br>- say “no” to tasks, resisting that we should always strive to <a href="https://mas.to/tags/produce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>produce</span></a> more,<br>- automate <a href="https://mas.to/tags/repetitive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>repetitive</span></a> tasks to free up time for <a href="https://mas.to/tags/creative" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>creative</span></a> tasks.</p><p><a href="https://theconversation.com/why-being-lazy-at-work-might-actually-be-a-good-thing-248955" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">theconversation.com/why-being-</span><span class="invisible">lazy-at-work-might-actually-be-a-good-thing-248955</span></a></p>
-0--1-<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@wcooperbooks" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>wcooperbooks</span></a></span> My <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Armchair" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Armchair</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/diagnosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>diagnosis</span></a> is that he is a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ShortDarkTriad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShortDarkTriad</span></a> or <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ShortDarkQuad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShortDarkQuad</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a>. It is more common to find them in the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CSuite" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CSuite</span></a> set. Moreover, because he is wealthy, he has never experienced <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Limitations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Limitations</span></a> and if he did, the culture he is from taught him to ignore boundaries <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ThinkOutOfTheBox" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ThinkOutOfTheBox</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/BreakDownBarriers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BreakDownBarriers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WINTHEGAME" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WINTHEGAME</span></a> and drink the blood of his enemy's children out of their skulls while he rapes their wives.</p>
tanz.dance<p>Now on tanz.dance: Marcos Morau, the freelance <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/choreographer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>choreographer</span></a> who is in demand with all <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/ballet" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ballet</span></a> companies. Why is that? What does he have that others don't? He is a fantasist, someone who pushes the <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a>: <a href="https://tanz.dance/marcos-morau-la-veronal/?lang=en" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">tanz.dance/marcos-morau-la-ver</span><span class="invisible">onal/?lang=en</span></a> And he does it with “Romeo and Juliet” at the Opera in Antwerp, April 3-6, 9-12</p>
Vox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>Some people are so _poisonous_ that not even understanding them is an effective _antidote_.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neuroqueer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neuroqueer</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦<p>(3 of 3) Your <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> should uplift you, not drain you. Choose connections that nourish your soul. </p><p>You can be <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/assertive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>assertive</span></a> and <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/kind" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kind</span></a> simultaneously when you address concerns like these. </p><p>A considerate and Emotionally Intelligent friend will respect and understand you (they may not agree with you) and they will try their best to accommodate!</p><p>I want to hear from you. How are you protecting your peace? What boundaries have you set? Share your wisdom in the comments! Let’s create a community of empowered individuals.<br><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Friendship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Friendship</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a></p>
John Vaccaro (johniac)<p>SciTech Chronicles. . . . . . . . .Mar 16th, 2025</p><p><a href="https://bit.ly/stc031625" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">bit.ly/stc031625</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dyes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dyes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/proteins" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>proteins</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/perylene" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>perylene</span></a>-bisimide <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/supramolecular" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>supramolecular</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/brown" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>brown</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dwarf" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dwarf</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Orion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Orion</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bore</span></a>-fields <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/groundwater" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>groundwater</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/infiltration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>infiltration</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/modelling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>modelling</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AMR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AMR</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/medicine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/agriculture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>agriculture</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/cf" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cf</span></a>-PICIs galactic <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/rotation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rotation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Schwarzchild" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Schwarzchild</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bounce" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bounce</span></a></p>
Steve Dustcircle 🌹<p>Setting <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Compassionate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Compassionate</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/threshold/202503/compassionate-boundaries" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psychologytoday.com/us/blog/th</span><span class="invisible">reshold/202503/compassionate-boundaries</span></a></p>
JulietJFall<p>“Along the Line: Writing with comics and graphic narrative in geography”. </p><p>NEW BOOK out soon with EPFL Press, the result of my long &amp; slow border walk, archival work, and painstaking drawing. Will be available open access &amp; direct from the publisher. Distributed internationally from September via Chicago University Press.</p><p>(My comic “Bornées”, published in French, was first written in English)</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/geography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geography</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/borders" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borders</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/territory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>territory</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/comics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>comics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/borderStudies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>borderStudies</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/visualSociology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>visualSociology</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/infrastructure" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>infrastructure</span></a></p>
Félicien Breton 🍉 🔻 🌱<p>What to do if bullying? Try consistent boundaries</p><p>1. do not writhe or waver. (Movement attracts the bully)<br>2. do not attempt to appease. (Any offer is interpreted as weakness and obtains thrust)<br>3. flee to a safe position that you could hold with support<br>4. then stand still. Set limits on how others treat you. Affirm boundaries (The bully will redirect attacks eventually)<br>5. connect: turn to a trusted person, reach out only to someone you feel well about<br>6. offer backing, foster, become accomplice, enjoy</p><p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/community" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>community</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/safety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>safety</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/negotiations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>negotiations</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/negotiating" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>negotiating</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/allies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>allies</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/support" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>support</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/retreat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>retreat</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/consistency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>consistency</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/fragility" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fragility</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/tips" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tips</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/lifeHacks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lifeHacks</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/attitude" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>attitude</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/standing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>standing</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/resources" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>resources</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/domination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>domination</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/violence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>violence</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/personalSafety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>personalSafety</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/groupSafety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>groupSafety</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/sociology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sociology</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/solutions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>solutions</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/bullying" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bullying</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/bullies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bullies</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/appeasement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>appeasement</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/containment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>containment</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/geoPolitics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geoPolitics</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/politics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politics</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/USPol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>USPol</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/USPolitics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>USPolitics</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Europe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Europe</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/defense" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>defense</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/defence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>defence</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/harassment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>harassment</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Ukraine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Ukraine</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/war" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>war</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/silentSunday" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>silentSunday</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/manliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>manliness</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/masculinity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>masculinity</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/enjoy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>enjoy</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/joy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>joy</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/solidarity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>solidarity</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/dappledLight" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dappledLight</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/childhood" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>childhood</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/selfWorth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfWorth</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/self" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>self</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/selfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfCare</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/family" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>family</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/mentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/selfStudy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfStudy</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/personal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>personal</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/intimate" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>intimate</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/positive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>positive</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/recall" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>recall</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/care" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>care</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/domesticViolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>domesticViolence</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ThePromise" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ThePromise</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/KeepThePromise" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KeepThePromise</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/dispair" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dispair</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/resentment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>resentment</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/recoil" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>recoil</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/acceptation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>acceptation</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/anarchism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>anarchism</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/geoPolitics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geoPolitics</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Russia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Russia</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/Zelensky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Zelensky</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/NATO" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NATO</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/stroll" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stroll</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/hiking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hiking</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/hedges" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hedges</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/hedge" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hedge</span></a></p>
Ryan Clough :v_gqueer: :v_pan:<p>Some of you probably know I'm in the process of poking at how I, er, relate to relationships (using that term broadly here).</p><p>As part of that work, I'm coming up with a list of relationship boundaries. These are the sorts of things I would expect anyone more than an acquaintance to respect if they want to interact with me. Some of these things are common sense: respecting my autonomy, no tolerance for abuse, that sort of thing. Others are tied to my identities: being a few different types of queer means I don't approach relationships like most people. Yet others are practical: I'm married, so my wife gets a say in a lot of legal/financial decisions pertaining to me. These are just a few examples, not a complete list of what I've come up with so far.</p><p>I'm curious: What are some things you would put on your list of boundaries for relationships?</p><p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonbinary</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a></p>
INBELLA<p>Ariana Grande Gave ‘Wicked’-Audition Secrets to Competition <a href="https://www.inbella.com/902933/ariana-grande-gave-wicked-audition-secrets-to-competition/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">inbella.com/902933/ariana-gran</span><span class="invisible">de-gave-wicked-audition-secrets-to-competition/</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/ArianaGrande" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ArianaGrande</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/ArianaGrandeButera" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ArianaGrandeButera</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/CelebritiesNews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CelebritiesNews</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/CynthiaErivo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CynthiaErivo</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/EricVetro" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EricVetro</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/film" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>film</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/galinda" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>galinda</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/glinda" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>glinda</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/movies" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>movies</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/musicals" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>musicals</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/News" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>News</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/SoSuddenAndNew" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SoSuddenAndNew</span></a> <a href="https://channels.im/tags/Wicked" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Wicked</span></a></p>
SpicyBiCutiePie 🌶🇨🇦<p>+ friend apologized for emotionally dumping (recurring pattern), they need therapy 🫢</p><p>You see: friends are someone to have intimate convos with, not an emotional punching bag or dumping ground (had to lay some <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a>; ensure i don’t enable them) ❤️‍🩹</p><p>+ <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ProductManagement" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ProductManagement</span></a> crash course this weekend 🧠</p><p>+ 2 mentor calls next week ☺️</p><p>+ mini <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/reunion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reunion</span></a> with girl friends also next week 😍</p><p>+ family dinner tonight</p><p>+ feeling good about not being on FB IG anymore </p><p>+ listening to Andrea Bocelli and Josh Groban this morning</p><p>+ quick wash cycle on washing machines, a Godsend<br> <br><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/GratitudeList" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GratitudeList</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/RampageOfAppreciation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RampageOfAppreciation</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AppreciationPost" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AppreciationPost</span></a></p>
Alaric Hobbs‘Unshore’, Old suitcase, sand and air humidifier, 2024.<br> <br> c. 1400, unseur, of a place, “not safe against attack,” also, of persons, “lacking certainty,” from un- “not” and sure. By early 15c. as “dependent on chance.”<br> The key of return—the symbolic act of holding onto the keys to their homes—embodies Palestinian resilience and the enduring connection to their homeland amid the ongoing genocide in Gaza (and previously, the Nakba). Central to Palestinian culture and activism, it signifies resistance and the relentless pursuit of justice. <br> <br> Using sand from his garden, Alaric explores the concept of “home from home,” with the coastline serving as both a border and a gateway, symbolising departure, arrival, and displacement. This piece reflects on “emotional baggage” and “living from a suitcase,” addressing the shared trauma of refugees and rough sleepers.<br> <br> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/vintagesuitcase?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#vintagesuitcase</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/contemporaryart?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#contemporaryart</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/contemporarysculpture?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#contemporarysculpture</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/contemporaryartist?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#contemporaryartist</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/conceptualart?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#conceptualart</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/conceptualartist?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#conceptualartist</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/conceptualsculpture?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#conceptualsculpture</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/roughsleepers?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#roughsleepers</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/displacement?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#displacement</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/trauma?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#trauma</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/refugees?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#refugees</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/migration?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#migration</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/seekingasylumisnotacrime?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#seekingasylumisnotacrime</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/baggage?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#baggage</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/departure?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#departure</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/arrival?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#arrival</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/emotionalbaggage?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#emotionalbaggage</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/genocide?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#genocide</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/gaza?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#gaza</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/palestine?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#palestine</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/unsure?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#unsure</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/coasttocoast?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#coasttocoast</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/border?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#border</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/shore?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#shore</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/boundary?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boundary</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/boundaries?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boundaries</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/boundarywaters?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#boundarywaters</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.social/discover/tags/alarichobbs?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#alarichobbs</a>
Church of Jeff<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@spamned" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>spamned</span></a></span> -- If you look closely, the thing that binds this all together are <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> </p><p>And if you haven't been keeping up, it has been proven that trauma is linked to virtually all mental illness.</p><p>And mental health across the board is linked to boundaries.</p>
Steve Dustcircle 🌹<p>Good <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a>, Great <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Relationships</span></a></p><p>How to set and hold <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/healthy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthy</span></a> boundaries for healthy relationships. </p><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/expansive-relationships/202501/good-boundaries-great-relationships" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/</span><span class="invisible">expansive-relationships/202501/good-boundaries-great-relationships</span></a></p>
Steve Dustcircle 🌹<p>Rethinking <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Child" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Child</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Discipline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Discipline</span></a></p><p>Alternatives to physical <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/punishment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>punishment</span></a> foster <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/healthy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthy</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/development" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>development</span></a>. </p><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/great-kids-great-parents/202501/rethinking-child-discipline" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/</span><span class="invisible">great-kids-great-parents/202501/rethinking-child-discipline</span></a></p><p>Use words to guide <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/behavior" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>behavior</span></a>. Talking builds <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/trust" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trust</span></a>, teaches <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a>, and helps <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/kids" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kids</span></a> make better <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/choices" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>choices</span></a>.<br>Helping <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/children" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>children</span></a> to identify and manage <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/emotions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotions</span></a> fosters <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/selfawareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>selfawareness</span></a> and <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/healthier" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthier</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/emotional" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotional</span></a> regulation.</p>