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Steven Saus [he/him]<p>(11 Apr) Autism Awareness Month: Different Is Not The Same As Diseased </p><p>Nobody blames a jet ski for being bad on the highway. <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a> </p><p><a href="https://s.faithcollapsing.com/2s66m" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">s.faithcollapsing.com/2s66m</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> <br>Archive: ais: <a href="https://archive.md/wip/gGPZc" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">archive.md/wip/gGPZc</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> ia: <a href="https://s.faithcollapsing.com/85kbq" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">s.faithcollapsing.com/85kbq</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> </p><p><a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/neurospicy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurospicy</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/audhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>audhd</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autism</span></a> <a href="https://faithcollapsing.com/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a></p>
Quinze Plush<p>Currently reading <a href="https://www.augustbooks.co/books/explaining-au-dhd-dr-khurram-sadiq/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Explaining AuDHD</a> and this quote has me triggered</p><blockquote><p>[Autistic people] can be literal in their though process, which makes subtext and metaphor challenging to comprehend. 'I'll be there in five minutes' means the actual five minutes to an autistic person.</p></blockquote><p>WHY THE FLYING FUCK WOULD YOU SAY "5 MINUTES" IF YOU DON'T MEAN 5 MINUTES? WHY?!????!!!</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Seb ∞<p>Nearing my 2 year mark of self-realizing as <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a> and began to find myself. I'm grateful for that. However, my well thought out statements or questions are almost always misunderstood. I rarely get a straight answer. Often met with befuddlement, resentment, exasperation and in some cases, hate.<br>Truth is I feel very alone and any sense of community (even here) seems beyond my grasp.<br><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyaudhd" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyadhd" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyadhd</span></a></span></p>
Evan Light<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://infosec.exchange/@Lightfighter" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Lightfighter</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://alaskan.social/@seachanger" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>seachanger</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://social.coop/@hollie" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>hollie</span></a></span> I don't see opportunity for action that is likely to have meaningful impact. I protested 45. 47seems unchecked.</p><p>I suffer learned helplessness in this and, frankly, in much of life. 51 years of undiagnosed <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a> does that: C-PTSD by living in a world that resists my existence. Even with 10 years of helpful treatment, while improved, that learned helplessness still runs deep. </p><p>Now, I'm quite literally disabled. I'm trying to work out how to live all over again with the AuDHD diagnosis. It's like learning how to ride a bicycle all over again but without any training wheels. I've barely left my home for the 2 months now since diagnosis. I am now frequently incapacitated with little warning: a gift from a nervous system that is finally done hiding its massive overwhelm from me any longer.</p><p>If that reads like an excuse then I suppose that's probably because it is.</p>
Evan Light<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> People who can indefinitely maintain a desk this way are literally uncanny to me. <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/actuallyautistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyautistic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/@BasicAppleGuy/114285855864742064" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">mastodon.social/@BasicAppleGuy</span><span class="invisible">/114285855864742064</span></a></p>
Quinze Plush<p>Today I did a very simple DIY job using a drill and a jigsaw. The project took half an hour, but I called my partner half a dozen times to tell them about my progress and show them moderately interesting stuff (not really interesting, I just wanted to be interesting).</p><p>The DIVA questionnaire has a “Difficultly playing alone” checkbox in section A5. What. A. Surprise.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Tarren (They/Them)<p>Been playing on <a href="https://www.erionmud.com" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">erionmud.com</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> and am thoroughly enjoying the crafting system. Having the option to just work uninterrupted, in familiar patterns, appeals to my <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> need for structure and familiarity, while when my <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> side wants novelty, I can go wander the realm and see what pops up. And if I need something, I can make it myself, darn it! LOL If you try it out and need some pointers, I'm usually up there as Tamryn, so feel free to ask me anything.</p><p>***Hashtags Here:***<br><a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/MUDs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MUDs</span></a> <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/MUD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MUD</span></a> <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/Gaming" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Gaming</span></a> <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/MultiUserDungeon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MultiUserDungeon</span></a> <a href="https://dragonscave.space/tags/Neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neurodivergent</span></a></p>
V'ger<p>In the process of my AuDHD diagnosis in the past year, I started to take a closer look into my own sexuality. Romance and sexuality have both been a source of possible conflict in my past relationship. I came to the conclusion pretty fast that I was aromantic, but I was never really sure if I was asexual. </p><p>I've never thought that I could be asexual, because I do find people aesthetically attractive. Some research on the topic quickly showed me that this is by no means an exclusion to be asexual. Which made sense to me, because I feel there is a disconnect to this type of attration and actual sexual attraction. I pretty much never have the desire to have actual sex with a person.</p><p>For the past years, I had a total disconnect to pretty much all of my feelings. Throughout the past year, I slowly regained consciousness on some, after learning that I am AuDHD. What helped me the most discovering that I am, in fact, on the asexual spectrum as well, was noticing all the sensory issues I have. I am very sensitive for touch and temperature and I absolutely hate it to be wet and sweaty. In a phase of a lot of stress, smell can also be an issue. In addition to that, I am unable to turn off my mind and just flow with the situation during sex. I need a set of "things to do" that I can rely on. The combination of all this leads to a very limited set of sexual intercourse that I am able to enjoy. When the stars are aligned, there can be times where I can actually enjoy sexual activity. But it is nothing that I actively search for.</p><p>Sometimes I think about how a relationship with someone would have to be for me to make it work. I would not want to live in the same house with that partner. I'd probably also only want to see them on a weekend, and not even every weekend. I would like to spend my vacations to a great amount for myself. Bring in the needed effort (and thus: spoons) one has to put into a relationship and I am quickly back to the point where I just think that it would not enhance my life in any way.</p><p>I am currently positioning myself somewhere between aegosexual and demisexual. The combination of being in both, the aromantic and asexual spectrum, and finally having figured that out about myself, currently leads to the situation that I am quite happy with not having a partner.</p><p><a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/Asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Asexual</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Ashley Halliwell<p><strong>Presenting the finest spoof ad I’ve ever made:</strong></p><p>RIP Steve Jobs. This design Advertising?? poking fun at?? object impermanence is for you.</p><p>-Allēna</p><p>#ActuallyADHD #apple #spoof #shitposting #actuallyautistic #actuallyAudhd #NEISvoid #objectimpermanence #iforgot #graphicdesign #neurodivergence</p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyadhd/" target="_blank">#ActuallyADHD</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyaudhd/" target="_blank">#actuallyAuDHD</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyautistic/" target="_blank">#ActuallyAutistic</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/apple/" target="_blank">#Apple</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/graphicdesign/" target="_blank">#GraphicDesign</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/iforgot/" target="_blank">#iforgot</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/neisvoid/" target="_blank">#NEISvoid</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/neurodivergence/" target="_blank">#neurodivergence</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/objectimpermanence/" target="_blank">#objectimpermanence</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/shitposting/" target="_blank">#shitposting</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/spoof/" target="_blank">#spoof</a></p>
Vox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>Some people are so _poisonous_ that not even understanding them is an effective _antidote_.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>empathy</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neuroqueer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neuroqueer</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Vox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>How does one recognize whether or not what one experienced was narcissistic abuse?</p><p>It's not like one can ask the hypothetical abuser. They will deny it. Is learning about the patterns of narcissistic abuse and subsequently recognizing how they show up in one's lived experience the best one can do?</p><p>I find that a very unsatisfactory conclusion but it does seem like the best one can do. I probably lived in a relationship with at least narcissistic abuse patterns. And the unsolvable ambiguity of it all bothers me.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/psychologicalAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychologicalAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/narcissisticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissisticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healing</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Vox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>I feel this must be a deeply autistic experience: the disbelief when people actually try to convince you that they didn't mean what they said. And I'm not talking subtext, I'm talking about the grammatical meaning of their verbatim words and sentences.</p><p>And then you ask them to clarify and through a convoluted sequence of justifications they end up at "see? And this is why I couldn't possibly have meant this!".</p><p>Like wat? Why did you say/write it then in the first place? So fucking confusing. But maybe the explanation really is that autistic people choose their words much more carefully. It's certainly my lived experience.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyaudhd" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a></span></p>
V'ger<p>Today it has been four weeks taking MPH. And I must say, I don't think this is a placebo effect anymore. Focusing on work has become SO MUCH EASIER! There are still days when I'm low on energy that I can't get a lot of work done. But even on those days I'm able to do things when they are really urgent.</p><p>So I definitely still need to manage my spoons. MPH doesn't really increase my energy level. It just helps me managing my energy better on a daily basis.</p><p>I'm finally able to function again 🥲</p><p><a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://chaugnar.daemonlair.org/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Evan Light<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://neopaquita.es/@Cattz" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Cattz</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> As <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a>, I'm somewhere close to "I'm dying inside because I can't make patterns and I want to be anywhere else right now."</p>
:neuro: Pixy's Journey :v_bi:<p>I&#39;m working on a new blog post about me and my stimming<br />Asked AI to make me an image. I edited it. Then I asked AI for a good Alt text. And I guess the word &quot;stimming&quot; is restricted? As it was being blocked by the app and it had big issues with giving me a good description.<br />Never thought that the word &quot;stimming&quot; would be a bad one, in need of censoring...</p><p>So, sharing the image here, as I hope that <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://fuzzies.wtf/@altbot" class="u-url mention">@<span>altbot</span></a></span> will be able to help me. As I do want to add an Alt text to the image on my blog.</p><p>We live in weird times these days... We can do &quot;roman greetings&quot;, but we can&#39;t use the word &quot;stimming&quot;. 🤔</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a></p>
Evan Light<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://beige.party/@LRRRonEarth" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>LRRRonEarth</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/actuallyautistic" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>actuallyautistic</span></a></span> Autism + ADHD? I know this one well. <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/ActuallyAutistc" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistc</span></a> <a href="https://tenforward.social/tags/actuallyaudhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyaudhd</span></a></p>
:neuro: Pixy's Journey :v_bi:<p>:bear_love: Ello sweet and lovely Friendos :purple_heart_sparkle:</p><p>Some moments, I love my brain, other moments, I really hate the way it treats me... :BlahajHoldingNeurodivergentSymbol: </p><p>Like, I know I want to do something. Or I know I need to do something. I make this plan of how I want to do it all. And then I agree that it&#39;s a good plan.</p><p>So, I start the plan. And it starts off well. Step one and two are a success. :bowie_stardust: So then, onwards to step three. And that&#39;s when part of my brain goes like &quot;nah, I&#39;ve had enough now, I don&#39;t wanna do that other thing, I just dismiss it and then stress over it later, as then it really needs doing&quot;.</p><p>I just wanna do it as I planned it. Keep away the stress. Have it done ahead of time, so I can relax afterwards.</p><p>Even if it&#39;s &quot;just&quot; something that I want to do for me, that won&#39;t impact others in any way... Even then, I beat myself up over it.</p><p>Why does my brain think of this great plan, and then it won&#39;t want to finish all the steps? Why is it OK with the first two steps, before losing interest for the next one?</p><p>:neuro: :neurodiversity: :ms_neurodiversity: </p><p>Is this the part where my ADHD part is rebelling against the autistic bits? Where the ADHD (my &quot;focus&quot; is apparently on the H bit, according to the diagnosis) is losing interest, as it&#39;s focused long enough and, hey, I did those two things, didn&#39;t I?!</p><p>Ah well, I pressured myself into not forgoing the third thing, and I&#39;m doing it now. But I do hope I&#39;ll be able to focus enough on it to do a proper &quot;job&quot;.</p><p>Yeah, my brain can be my best friend at times, but also my biggest enemy (especially when it&#39;s inviting the dark monster back into my life)...</p><p>Fankoos for your support :blahaj_heart: on my journey through life...</p><p>🧚🏼‍♀️ 🍀 💜 🐾</p><p><a href="https://beige.party/tags/PixysJourney" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>PixysJourney</span></a><br /><a href="https://beige.party/tags/NeuroSpicy" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>NeuroSpicy</span></a> 🌶️<br /><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a><br /><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a><br /><a href="https://beige.party/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p><p>I hope <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://fuzzies.wtf/@altbot" class="u-url mention">@<span>altbot</span></a></span> 🤖 can help me with my image, then I&#39;ll edit the Toot to add the alt text.</p>
Cat McIntyre<p>My <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/adhd" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adhd</span></a> super power is randomly making small but quite important objects vanish completely, never to be seen again.</p><p>In other news, if anyone has any idea where my comb might be, please let me know. Last remembered in the dish rack by the sink because it needed a wash, and I have a vague recollection of taking it out to put back and... maybe putting it on a flat surface? But it's not on any of them. It's not under or behind any of them. </p><p>Update: Found it!</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/ActuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/ActuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Vox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>I could use a break from my brain.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergence</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/ADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
Ashley Halliwell<p><strong>My last three (3) braincells attempting to decide what I’m doing today.</strong></p><p>One of them is autism, one of them is ADHD, and the other is the desire to not do anything productive at all. I think the dogs that are fighting are autism and ADHD, and the woman screaming is my desire to not do anything productive at all. The woman just wants to sit and watch more trash TV until some form of inspiration hits, and <em>then </em>she’ll do something. Except there are two huge dogs going goblin mode in front of her 😭</p><p>This is my current mood. I’ve been resting a lot because my guts still hurt off and on, and honestly watching TV that I like is helping my brain rest and get more inspiration for my writing in the long term. Plus, as Laz has said before, it’s nice to be able to be a fan of things again. It’s been years since we’ve been able to do that.</p><p>Aside from this post and talking to people, will I get anything else productive done? I’m not sure. But I’ll do my best if I’m so inspired.</p><p>-Allēna </p><p><a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyadhd/" target="_blank">#ActuallyADHD</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyaudhd/" target="_blank">#actuallyAuDHD</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/actuallyautistic/" target="_blank">#ActuallyAutistic</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/healing/" target="_blank">#healing</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/humor/" target="_blank">#Humor</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/meme/" target="_blank">#meme</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/neisvoid/" target="_blank">#NEISvoid</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/rest/" target="_blank">#rest</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/spoonie/" target="_blank">#Spoonie</a> <a rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" class="hashtag u-tag u-category" href="https://opensorceryy.co/tag/strokesurvivor/" target="_blank">#strokesurvivor</a></p>