We are going to miss this timeline.
@VanessaNightshade
I don't think it's completely gone yet.
@VanessaNightshade can you just recreate the accidentally deleted mail alias? Sorry, it’s not my place to talk over why and how you do your thing. Just, I feel your sense of loss, and I just wanted to help, even in a small way.
@Azzura
We no longer have the parent account with which to do that.
It was a chaotic event with a lot of internal struggle with who was supposed to be fronting and things went poorly.
It was an important learning experience, however. It reminded us we only function if we work as a team.
@VanessaNightshade I know a lot bout rebuilding myself. I hope you’re going to be fine. Also, here is a food for thought. Have you tried talking with your instance admins? At the end this place is not a big corporation black box. Maybe they willing to help.
@Azzura We have considered that. One of our headmates has good rapport with the admin, but we do not want to get them involved. We are a month away from the one year anniversary of becoming consciously aware of our multiplicity. Feels like an appropriate time to reduce from multiple accounts to one.
We can always create new ones later if we need to, but at least for now, this is a reasonable option during this transitional period.
Alyx is against the idea. Vanessa is mixed. I am convinced it will work out just fine.
@meadow thanks so much for sharing this with me. I appreciate it.